Tega: Everyone has the Good and Bad sides

Tega’s Husband has just almost declared his wife – the ex-Big brother Naija Shine ya eye housemate missing, recall that the Cross Rivers Indigene was evicted from the reality show last Sunday after a series of romantic events with former housemate – Boma on the show.

AJ who is now popularly known as just ‘Tega’s husband’ while speaking on Tunde Ednut’s Instagram live said he hasn’t heard from his wife since her eviction on Sunday evening and also lamented at the new person his wife had become. In his own words “I was broken when I saw all that on TV because I know where I’m coming from we are really responsible. Tega is a very good girl but I wonder why she went there and did what she did. I can’t explain”

But as it appears AJ is also appearing to be a different person as he had earlier in the show commended his wife for being a good actor after she appeared to allow her breast  be sucked by a fellow housemate during a truth or dare game he even promised that viewers were going to see more as they had not seen anything yet so the question I am asking is, is this also a new AJ just like AJ is saying the Tega on BB Naija is a new Tega and has requested for the old Tega that left their house for the reality show.

But I think what is happening with BB Naija Tega isn’t really strange as every human being comes with multiple sides and most times the side we get to see is the side that our environment or internal and external factors have made to be predominant in us, sometimes we can even get so familiar with this side that it becomes like this is all we are.

Even the Bible says foolishness abounds in the heart of a child but the rod of correction drives it away so when a child or an adult appears to be wise it is not because he or she only came with the wise side but because an external factor – the rod of correction has made a less dominant ‘wise’ side more dominant that the original ‘foolish’ side.

So that very bad person could easily have become a fantastic person just like the very amazing person could have been otherwise and this sometimes can change when internal or external factors change in a more influential matter, BB Naija Tega’s husband apparently didn’t recognize this fact when he gave his wife the license to go to Biggie’s house and ‘do anything but sex’.

So to AJ and everyone, trust no one completely.